How to Achieve Success?

Zeeshan finally reached that top position after working hard all his life. In his profession which he had thought of. He is 48 years old and he has worked tirelessly to reach this position and now that he has reached this point one day he talks to his wife about quitting his job, he didn’t realize that he what kind of mental problem is he going through? His wife urged him to seek therapy before making any major changes in his life. Zeeshan also wanted to get rid of all these problems, so he immediately agreed. When he came to my office, he first explained that he had worked hard all his life with the thought that if he got a high-level job with a decent income, he would feel that now he is a successful person.

As now he has everything he ever wanted. But he owns not satisfied with life. Now he is starting to realize that he was wrong. Originally he wanted to work for a non-profit organization. Which helps youths who are suffering from problems. He thought that he would use all his skills to help those who would be more beneficial, honorable and happy for him. Zeeshan was not going through any kind of mental problem but I must say he is better than others, mentally, he made his own definition of success in his life and now he started living in such a way. As he always wanted to live. He began to understand the meaning and purpose of life, you have to define success for yourself because if you don’t, someone else will, for you. The example of Zeeshan is in front of you.

There are many more such people who spend their whole lives trying to achieve success which is not actually success for them. Try not to make the mistakes of defining success for yourself or defining your own terms. Success to you every day there are many messages about first comes your parents who tell you what success is and then this echo keeps ringing in your mind. Because parents are the primary source of learning. Nowadays social media also plays a very important role, we get a lot of information about success from here, and advertisements tell you what kind of cars successful people drive or what products they use and all these things. You imply that you need to earn money yourself to buy all these things.

Everyone is willing to share their success story on Facebook and when you ask them how they achieved success, everyone has their own way. You have to create your own definition of success or the definitions of others will define you in their own way. You have to ask yourself some questions if you want to put yourself on the path to success. When you are 100 years old and look back on your past, what will make you think that the life you lived was wonderful? If you have left large estates to your children, will you call it a success, will you think that you used your time well? You will feel happy by helping other people if by discovering all the terms of the world? If you are able to answer all these questions, then you will definitely create your definition of success, once you have done this, write it down on a piece of paper and save it somewhere.

The advantage of this is that you will always remember the term. To live a good life it is very important to strive and be clear about everything, whatever steps you take in your life should be according to your term of success, another characteristic of successful people is that they like other people. Never get burned by success. Instead of competing with other people, focus on yourself and try to focus on your own success rather than lamenting other people’s success. There are many people in this world who are ahead of you, living a better life than you, instead of envying them and wasting your time, focus on hard work. Because being jealous will never make things better for you, everything is possible, there is nothing you can’t do, all you need is to strengthen your belief and make it count. Start working hard.